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Choose Peace Over Violence

Violence is never the answer. You have the power to break cycles of violence and create safe, peaceful environments for yourself and others.

In immediate danger? Call 911

Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Peace Checklist - Your path to a violence-free life

Your Peace Action Plan

Building safety and healing

Understanding Violence's Impact

Violence affects everyone involved - victims, perpetrators, families, and communities. Recognizing these impacts is crucial for prevention and healing.

Physical & Emotional Impact
  • Physical injuries and long-term health issues
  • Emotional trauma and PTSD
  • Anxiety, depression, and fear
  • Loss of self-esteem and confidence
  • Sleep disturbances and nightmares
  • Chronic stress and hypervigilance
Family & Relationships
  • Breakdown of family relationships
  • Children witnessing or experiencing violence
  • Social isolation and loss of support
  • Difficulty trusting others
  • Cycle of violence continuing
  • Impact on extended family and friends
Life & Community
  • Legal consequences and criminal charges
  • Loss of employment and financial stability
  • Housing instability and homelessness
  • Community safety concerns
  • Educational disruption for children
  • Perpetuation of violence in society

Emergency Resources

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger

National Domestic Violence Hotline

1-800-799-7233

24/7 confidential support

Emergency Services

911

For immediate danger

Crisis Text Line

Text START to 88788

24/7 crisis support via text

National Child Abuse Hotline

1-800-4-A-CHILD

Child protection services

Path to Peace

Breaking cycles of violence requires multiple approaches. Here are proven strategies to create safety and build peaceful relationships.

Immediate Safety
  • Create a safety plan with trusted contacts
  • Know emergency numbers and safe locations
  • Document incidents with photos and records
  • Contact domestic violence hotlines for support
  • Consider temporary protective orders
  • Establish secure communication methods
Professional Support
  • Work with domestic violence counselors
  • Join support groups for survivors
  • Seek therapy for trauma recovery
  • Contact legal aid for protection orders
  • Work with social services if needed
  • Connect with victim advocacy programs
Conflict Resolution
  • Learn healthy communication skills
  • Practice anger management techniques
  • Develop emotional regulation strategies
  • Seek mediation for ongoing conflicts
  • Learn de-escalation techniques
  • Build empathy and understanding
Building Peace
  • Create peaceful home environments
  • Establish clear boundaries and respect
  • Practice forgiveness and healing
  • Build strong support networks
  • Engage in community peace-building
  • Model non-violent behavior for children

Your Peace Action Plan

Use this comprehensive checklist to guide your journey toward violence-free living. Check off each item as you complete it.

Immediate Safety Steps
Short-term Goals (1-30 days)
Medium-term Goals (1-6 months)
Long-term Goals (6+ months)

Violence Prevention Resources

Comprehensive resources to support your journey toward peace and connect you with professional help.

Support Organizations
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline

    24/7 support and resources

  • National Coalition Against Domestic Violence

    Advocacy and support resources

  • RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)

    Sexual violence support and resources

  • National Center for Victims of Crime

    Victim advocacy and support

  • Love Is Respect

    Teen dating violence prevention

Legal & Safety
  • Legal Aid Society

    Free legal assistance for low-income individuals

  • National Legal Aid & Defender Association

    Legal aid directory

  • WomensLaw.org

    Legal information for abuse survivors

  • Stalking Resource Center

    Stalking prevention and safety

  • National Center on Protection Orders

    Information on restraining orders

Mobile Apps
  • myPlan

    Safety planning app for abuse survivors

  • bSafe

    Personal safety app with emergency features

  • Aspire News

    Disguised safety app for domestic violence

  • NNEDV Safety Net

    Technology safety for survivors

  • Red Panic Button

    Emergency alert system

Books & Education
  • Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft

    Understanding abusive relationships

  • The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker

    Trusting intuition for personal safety

  • Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman

    Understanding and healing from trauma

  • No Visible Bruises by Rachel Louise Snyder

    Domestic violence awareness and prevention

  • The Body Keeps the Score

    Trauma's impact on the body and mind

Online Communities
  • DomesticShelters.org

    Resources and shelter directory

  • National Domestic Violence Hotline Chat

    Online chat support

  • Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence

    Survivor stories and support

  • Purple Purse Foundation

    Financial empowerment for survivors

  • When Georgia Smiled

    Domestic violence awareness

Family & Children
  • Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline

    Child abuse prevention and support

  • National Center for Missing & Exploited Children

    Child safety and protection

  • Futures Without Violence

    Family violence prevention programs

  • National PTA Safety Resources

    School and community safety

  • Safe Horizon

    Victim services and support

Personal Safety Notes

Use this space to track your safety plan, triggers, support network, and progress. Your notes are saved locally and remain private.

💡 Suggestions for your notes:

  • Personal safety plan and emergency contacts
  • Triggers and warning signs to watch for
  • Peaceful conflict resolution strategies
  • Support network and trusted contacts
  • Progress toward non-violent behavior
  • Healing and recovery milestones

Peace Begins With You

Every person has the power to choose peace over violence. By breaking cycles of harm and building understanding, you create ripples of positive change that extend far beyond yourself.

Today

Choose words of kindness over anger, understanding over judgment.

This Month

Building skills for peaceful conflict resolution and emotional regulation.

Your Legacy

A life of peace that inspires others and breaks generational cycles.